Do you believe in fate/destiny?

It’s time for a real talk. Do you ever find yourself pondering the grand plan of the universe? Is our path already laid out, or do we have the power to shape our own destinies? Today, we’re getting deep into the age-old question of fate, destiny, and how much control we really have over our lives.

What’s the Difference?

Let’s break down these terms that tend to go hand-in-hand.

• Fate: Think of this as the idea that major events in life are predetermined, beyond our control. A force greater than ourselves guides the big things.
• Destiny: Destiny suggests we have a predetermined purpose or path, but retain some agency in reaching it. Unlike fate, destiny implies we have choices on the journey.

Now, the million-dollar question: How much of our lives are already mapped out, and how much power do we have to make changes?

Virgos, We Love Control

As a Virgo myself, I know we thrive on order and planning. The idea of things happening outside of our meticulous designs can be frustrating. But is life really that inflexible? Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, things turn out differently. A relationship ends unexpectedly, a dream job falls through… is this fate at work?

Other times, we make conscious choices and witness the direct consequences ripple through our lives. We change careers, move cities, or decide to expand our families. These feel more like acts of destiny – using our free will to shape our reality.

A Spectrum, Not an Either-Or

The truth probably lies somewhere in between fate and pure free will. Maybe there are certain key moments pre-set (like soul contracts if you believe in that sort of thing), but how we reach those moments and the lessons we learn along the way are up to us!

Think of it like a roadmap: There may be major destinations we’re meant to reach, but the specific route we take, the scenery we soak in, and the detours we encounter – those are fueled by our choices.

So, What Does it All Mean?

Instead of fixating on the things we can’t change, let’s focus on where we do have power. We can:

• Set intentions and goals: Align with the vision for your life.
• Live in the present: Don’t get bogged down by the past or anxiety about what’s to come.
• Stay adaptable: There’s power in knowing when to change course.

Whether you believe in fate, destiny, or something in between, remember this: You have the potential to shape your reality in profound ways. Trust your intuition, embrace the unexpected, and create the fierce life you choose!