Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.
A Bold Question for a Bold Woman
What’s one thing you hope people say about you?
It’s a heavy question, isn’t it? Maybe even a little morbid. But it’s also powerful. It forces you to zoom out of your daily grind, that endless loop of work emails, grocery lists, and Netflix binges, and confront something bigger: Your legacy.
Let’s get into it.
What Legacy Means
Your legacy is the mark you leave on the world, the way people remember you long after you’re gone. And no, it doesn’t have to mean having your name etched in history books. Your legacy could be the lives you’ve touched, the values you’ve upheld, or the joy you’ve brought into spaces you’ve occupied.
So, what’s your answer?
Do you want to be remembered for your kindness? Your hustle? Your unshakable loyalty to your people? Maybe it’s for your ability to bring calm to chaos or your dedication to speaking out on issues that matter.
Whatever it is, it’s a reflection of your values and the kind of person you strive to be—not just on your best days, but on the hard ones, too.
Why Thinking About Legacy Matters
Let’s keep it real—legacy isn’t just for celebrities or billionaires. It’s something everyone should think about because it can shape the way you live your life today.
Here’s why:
1. Clarity: When you know your legacy, you know your priorities. It helps you sift through what’s worth your time and what’s just noise.
2. Focus: Decisions (even the tough ones) feel easier when you think, “How does this fit into the story I want to leave behind?”
3. Motivation: Knowing you’re building something meaningful keeps you going when life gets messy.
4. Inspiration: People are watching how you move. Your story might give someone else permission to start writing their own.
The Real Work Behind Building a Legacy
Alright, here’s the tea: building a legacy isn’t all inspirational Instagram quotes and vision boards. It’s work. Hard work.
And it’s often uncomfortable. It might mean walking away from people who no longer align with your values. It could mean rethinking your career path or getting real about habits that don’t serve you.
But let’s flip that discomfort: it’s also freeing.
Here’s how you can start carving out a legacy that’s authentically yours:
What drives you? What feels non-negotiable in your life? Whether it’s honesty, compassion, or grit, make a list. Then ask yourself, “Am I living in alignment with these values?”
Your legacy isn’t built overnight. Dream big, but break it down into bite-sized goals. Want to be remembered as a leader? Start by mentoring someone today. Want to be known for your creativity? Start that passion project you’ve been putting off.
Your relationships will outlive any accomplishment on your resume. Nurture your connections—friends, family, mentors. Surround yourself with people who challenge you to grow while holding space for your journey.
Yes, failures. Every inspiring legacy has a chapter of stumbles. Don’t hide from your mistakes—embrace them, learn from them, and use them to fuel your next move.
5. Give Back
Your impact multiplies when you pour into others. Whether it’s mentoring, volunteering, or being a source of encouragement, sharing your resources (time, energy, or money) builds a legacy of generosity.
A Legacy of Light
Your legacy doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be yours.
So, ask yourself:
• What story do I want my life to tell?
• How am I living today to reflect that story?
• What am I doing to uplift others along the way?
And remember: your legacy is being written every single day—in the small kindnesses, the bold risks, the quiet moments where you choose to rise above.
Let’s Talk
Drop your thoughts in the comments. What do you hope people will remember about you? Is it your resilience? Your ability to make others feel seen? Let’s share and inspire each other.
Because here’s the truth: Your legacy matters. And it starts now.
Fierce Millenial 
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