What have you been working on?

Why It’s Okay to Flex Your Side Hustle, Creative Projects, and Even Your Chill Time

Let’s get real for a second. How many times have you bumped into someone you haven’t seen in a while, and they hit you with that “So, what have you been working on?” question? Cue the mini-panic attack. We all feel it—the sudden rush to make our lives sound as productive and groundbreaking as humanly possible. Whether you’ve been pouring your energy into a side hustle, perfecting your Netflix queue, or simply surviving (because, let’s face it, that’s a full-time job), it all matters.

The truth? Whatever you’re working on is enough. And it’s time we ditch the pressure to always be doing “the most.” So, let’s break it down. Whether you’re building a business, brushing up on your self-care routine, or perfecting the art of doing absolutely nothing, here’s why all your pursuits deserve to shine.

The Rise of the Multi-Hustle

It’s 2024, and the days of having just one job are over. Between rent, groceries, and everything in between, many of us are juggling a 9-to-5, a passion project, and a sprinkle of “how to not lose my mind.” Side hustles have evolved from a trend into a necessity, especially for millennial and Gen-X women.

Starting a side business isn’t just about making extra cash—it’s about flexing your creativity, finding independence, and creating a backup plan in a world where the traditional career ladder looks more like a rollercoaster.

Side Hustles, Baby!

Raise your hand if you’re currently launching a project that makes you want to scream both “I love this!” and “What was I thinking?” Whether it’s selling merch on Etsy, creating digital products, or launching a consulting gig, the hustle is real. But guess what? Every bit of effort counts, even if it feels like you’re moving at a snail’s pace. The fact that you’re even trying is a win!

My advice? Stop comparing your Chapter 1 to someone else’s Chapter 20. Whether you’ve just bought your domain name or you’re at the point where you’re considering hiring an assistant (hello, glow-up!), celebrate every step of the journey. That “I’m just getting started” phase? It’s golden.

Hobby Hustling: Not Everything Has to Make You Money

Sometimes the hustle isn’t about dollars, and that’s okay. Hobbies are legit self-care, and they count as “working on something,” even if you aren’t turning a profit. Maybe you’ve taken up candle-making, or you’ve started writing poetry again (and no, it doesn’t have to be published for it to matter).

We often feel the pressure to monetize every interest, but there’s power in doing things just for the joy of it. You don’t have to start an Etsy shop just because you enjoy crocheting (unless you want to). Sometimes it’s enough to nurture your creativity without strings attached.

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Rest is a Legitimate Goal

Let’s normalize “working” on yourself. Resting, resetting, and straight-up chilling is productive. Yep, you heard me. Our culture glorifies being busy, but what if you took the time to chill without guilt?

We’re constantly told to grind harder, sleep less, and make more moves—but at what cost? Burnout is real, and if you don’t take time to relax and recharge, you won’t be able to show up fully for any of the things you care about. So, if what you’ve been working on lately is your skincare routine, your nap game, or perfecting the art of doing absolutely nothing, good for you! You’re investing in your long-term well-being.

And let’s face it, looking rested and refreshed is always a flex.

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What’s Next for You?

The next time someone asks, “What have you been working on?” I want you to own your answer. Whether you’re grinding hard on a new business, creating art just for fun, or enjoying some much-needed downtime, it’s all valid. Your worth isn’t defined by how busy you are or how much money you make from your projects.

If you’ve been focused on getting your finances in order, working out, or learning to say “no” to things that don’t serve you, that’s a big deal. If you’ve been in a season of rest and recovery, that’s just as important. And if you’ve been exploring new hobbies or setting up the foundation for a side hustle? Cheers to you!

At the end of the day, life isn’t a race. It’s a marathon, and the only person you’re competing with is yourself. So, next time you feel that twinge of panic when someone asks what you’re working on, just smile, take a breath, and give them an honest answer. Whatever it is, be proud of it. You’re showing up, and that’s more than enough.